The Raya Questions

Selamat Hari Raya everyone!
And Maaf Zahir Batin.


My raya post will not be about food or how fun it was beraya.
The kinda questions i get this Raya seasons are :

If it was to come from the people who always confused me and my sister (who's younger and who's older) :

1) Bila nak habis? (habis study)
2) Tahun berapa?
3) Dah grad dah?
4) Dah dapat kerja?

Fine,I'm taking it as a compliment for my youthfulness ;p

If it was to come from my relatives, the questions will sound like this:
1) Dah ada boyfriend? (Kalau takde pon, apa yang pelik sangat?)
2) Who are you seeing these days? (What if i'm seeing no one and friends with everyone?)
3) Bila nak kahwin? (I don't know!)


Honestly speaking, I am tired of all the Q&A sessions.
Please uncles and aunties and grannies, please stop saying that i'm picky/choosy. Because I'm certainly not. Why should I? I'm not that great myself!
I believe that he's just out there busy doing something else. And I'm busy doing something in my life. Maybe we're just not destined to meet yet (boosting confidence level :) )

But i do think of this marriage thing as a serious matter.
I won't take it as simple as picking fresh fish from the fishmongers you see?
So do understand my situation when i say that I'm not ready yet and I haven't found someone who could take care of me for the rest of my life.

I want something eternal, InsyaAllah. (I'm sick of the dramaS, breakupS and breakdownS and I'm trying my best not to let anybody hurt me anymore)

Please pray that someday I'll meet someone who I can't live without and can't live without me either. As for now, I am sooooo Single and Available my friend.


There, I said it. Are you happy now?